Sex workers

Photograph by Sally T. Buck

Photophraph by Sally T. Buck

I welcome inquiries from individuals who engage in all forms of sex work.

I aim to provide a non-judgemental space where if you wish to talk about your work, you can do so without concern about being pathologised (e.g. treated as if your job is a sign of trauma or mental illness) or encouraged to consider exiting the industry.

Sex workers, like many marginalised groups, may be at risk of experiencing mental health difficulties and need to seek support for this. We can discuss this openly and I will not presume that the issues that bring you to therapy are either the cause or consequence of your work.

I am aware that for many sex workers, the stigma they experience can be more harmful to their mental health than the impact of the job itself. Where appropriate, therapy may involve thinking about ways of coping with this discrimination, perhaps also identifying internalised stigma and how you can best look after yourself and live well despite experiencing oppression.

My position is to respect your autonomy and not to presume how your work affects you. I am aware that for many, sex work may have both positive and negative aspects to it. Likewise, for many people, sex work may just be their chosen way of earning a living. I will ask you about your reasons for coming to therapy and whether discussing your work would be relevant and helpful for you.

Training and experience

I am building my experience of working with sex worker clients, having completed therapy with several current and former sex workers.

I have completed the European Sex Worker Alliance (ESWA)’s training for therapists working with sex workers which has helped to inform my practice and make me aware of current research and policy.

I am also listed on National Ugly Mugs (UK-based sex worker charity)’s directory of sex worker-friendly therapists and have agreed to their position statement supporting the rights and safety of sex workers. I offer a package through them where you can access three free sessions, please contact them directly to discuss this.

Privacy

I am aware that when seeking therapy, you may have worries about privacy. I am happy to discuss my record-keeping processes and for us to negotiate a system that you can feel comfortable with.

I will respect your confidentiality and will only share information about you with your consent. We can discuss the limits of confidentiality together – whilst in an emergency where there is an immediate risk to yourself or others, I might need to contact your GP or next of kin, this can be done without any need to share details of your work.